Welcome to the forum Stephen.
So delighted to hear that Brenda is still with us. Wonderful lady!
I knew Bob well. Lovely man full of "get up and go".... well most days, partying could take its toll!
He came to us, as Riskygizmo, said after the "big bomb scare". Quite frankly, before then security on QE2 was a joke. Even afterwards, it could get quite amusing.
As mentioned, he got the name "Bob the Bomb", his relief, also ex army, Pete O'Neil, became "Plastic Pete" and the third of the trio, Bob Lockwood, became "Baby Bomb"
Bob was the one, who created the Wardroom shows on the World Cruises and actually enlivened the Wardroom considerably. Mostly by arranging "nights" in the Wardroom, with various themes of entertainment. I took over the the arrangement of the Wardy shows from him.
I also took over his cabin on a couple of occasions due to cabin shortages and he told me to have fun with his "toys" in one of the closets! Several dummy bombs, that he used to practise on! I did not do too well!
Before he joined the Army, or during his Army career, he was also a carpenter. He did all the wood panelling in the kitchen of the house that I used to visit from time to time.
On one world cruise, he also got some of us invites to the Indian ANA Ball, (Army, Navy, Air Force) Great time,! At that event he also got me entered into the beauty contest! I won!!!! Still waiting for my prize though.
Regarding the pistol thing............let us just say that some things get slightly exaggerated for the benefit of a good story.
I will say this though.
Both Bob, and Pete were on the Wardy darts team. We were playing a match against the Sailors in the Wardy just after leaving port.
Bob and Pete were throwing the crappiest darts you could imagine. They were both wearing the heavy blue uniform jacket. I told Pete..."Come on man we are going to lose this! Take your jacket off!" He took me to one side and opened his jacket. There sitting in a shoulder holster was a .38 Smith and Wesson revolver. Bob was the same. We did win.
If Brenda is on the internet, PM me her address pls, I would love to get in touch with her.